Emotitis Episode

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I have another emotitis attack today. Today is “supposed to be” my father’s 48th birthday. But he wasn’t here long enough on earth to celebrate it. He died at a young age of 43. I’ve missed him so terribly! The pang of pain for losing someone so dear to my heart is unbearable.

There were so many things I haven’t told him yet. I wasn’t able to let him know he means so much to me and I am so proud of him! God didn’t permit me to tell him while he was still with us. That’s one of my greatest regrets. If there’s one thing I want to do while I am still journeying to this life, that would be to let those people I care about know how much they mean to me. Saying “I love you” wouldn’t hurt that much.

It just made me realize how important it is for the people you love to hear you say the magic words. That being said, I will have to start with my own family. Would you believe it? “I love you” is never heard here in our own home. But it’s more of clearly manifested in actions though. I think it would be best if it’s done both ways- you get to hear it and feel it all at the same time.

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Ellaine,

Ganda nung banner. I LOVE YOU TOO!

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Scotty's Princess
August 16th, 2008 at 3:39 am

@ JESSIE:

Thanks Kuya! That’s Ivy’s work of art, all for free. Labor of love yan, hehe!

Hahaha! Labuall too, hehehe!

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hello, can we exchange links? Please let me know!

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Scotty's Princess
August 16th, 2008 at 2:46 pm

PINAYMAMA:

Na hala! Makipag-exchange pa ka, Joy? Last year pa naa sa blogroll nako imong link, ambot kung naa pako sa imoha, hehe!

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KOREK jud ka len….

Nindot na kay imong header inday…. wowowee..hehehhe

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Tukayo, bday ng papa ko August 16. I’m not really expressive on how much I love them. Tinext ko lang sya ng i love you. pero yung mga ganyan di ko nasasabi ng harap-harapan. I should be more expressive. i will try. hehe

love yah!

Ganda ng bagong header mo. :)

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Your dad knows how much you love him. You may not be able to tell him in physical form, but he knows.

I lost my mom at a young age too, so I understand your feelings. Thank God we did tell each other how much we loved each other and my own family does as well. It’s something that’s said every morning and every night and I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t have that!

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I think Filipinos are just not that verbally expressive of their feelings. Don’t feel too bad because you are not alone in this. I grew up without hearing these 3 magical words even once in my own family. Now, there is not a day when my son or my husband and I would not say I love you to each other. I’m loving it, too !

Yeah, start it when you have your own family with that very gwapo Scott :)

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oi congrats diay sa imong ecard kay daghan na ug changes imo rank. sus mine kay gamay pa jud kaayo ang changes

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The Natural State Hawg
August 17th, 2008 at 12:38 am

Thanks for this post — it reminded me of how lucky I am to have my father around. The old codger is still kicking at 65-years-old and I am fortunate enough to see him regularly.

And during football season? My dad and I are right there watching our beloved Benton Panthers excel (well, they often stink) at the glorious game of high school football.

By the way, your dad certainly knew how much you loved him. I have children and we fathers always know. It’s a rule with few exceptions.

Thanks for the thought-provoking post.

Visit the Natural State Hawg!

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hi poh ate ellaine…
Ang ganda ng page moh…
^^ God Bless poh Always..

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Scotty's Princess
August 17th, 2008 at 2:14 am

@ HONEY, ELAINE, JEMI & LOLLII:

Thanks for appreciating my new header. I owe my good friend IVY a lot. She got the hands of an artist!

@ ELAINE:

Lab u, too Tukayo!

Magka-bertdey pala ang Papa natin. Pareho tayo Tukayo, di expressive. Naiinggit nga ako sa mga families who were brought up to be more verbally expressive.

@ ANNA:

I’m sorry to hear about your Mom. You’re lucky you were able to tell them. I want to be more expressive but I just wasn’t brought up that way and it’s hard to teach an old dog new tricks, if you know what I mean.

Thanks for sharing.

@ JEMI:

Yes, Sis. I think it’s in our culture but nowadsys I can see many Filipinos who have raised their children to be very verbally expressive and I’m loving it everytime I get to hear parents and children saying I LOVE YOUs at each other.

Yeah, when I have a family of my own, there won’t be a day they won’t hear those magic words from me.

With Scott and I, saying MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA is being said a hundred times over everytime we get to talk and I think we are treading on the right track.

@ FRANCINE:

Thanks for the congratulatory note, Dear. It didn’t came handy. It took a lot of time and effort before I’ve reached the rank that I have now.

@ THA NATURAL STATE HAWG:

You are most welcome, Sir! You are a very lucky man for having a father to share beautiful moments with.

I can imagine how it is with your children, too. Your avatar tells it all. Very sweet photo of you and your daughter!

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sis, your dad is very lucky to have such caring daughter in you.. i’m sure kung buhay pa c father, he’s very proud of you..

about dun sa tanong mo na quotes na naka art art..hehehe.. gumawa ako ng post about it.. madali lang naman sya gawin eh.. try mo lang. :]
ingat! nice layout na..hehehe..

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Scotty's Princess
August 17th, 2008 at 2:27 am

@ TWINKS:

Thanks, Sis!

Sige, I will try to learn from your tutorial a little later. I will have my beauty sleep first, hehe. Got up at 3:30am to prepare for church. I just got home.

Catch you all later!

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