I was out last night to attend the birthday bash of the one-year old baby of my “bestfriend”. I want to emphasize here that she has never kept in touch with me for a long time. I was a little surprised when I received her SMS the night before that she will be expecting me on her baby’s birthday party. Of course, I wouldn’t want to fail her. And besides, if this was her way of reaching out to me, who am I to refuse?
Am I still making sense? Forgive me but this is a sensitive issue that always leave deep marks in the core of my being. The saga of our
friendship has deep roots and I can not just let it loose. We have been the best of friends since we were twelve years old, we have been called inseparable pair since high school till college, and even graduated with the same degree! We know each other from the tip of our nails to the tip of our hairs! That’s what I thought! She always has that soft spot in my heart and it’s just hard to let her go to someone she love. Why can’t she have him and all at the same time remain friends with me and the rest of our friends? Oh well, we are friends for sure but we just ceased to be the best of friends. I got hurt. She means a lot to me. But then it’s her choice to stay away from me and remained distant. We have lost touch for years and it’s not my choice.
My boyfriend used to tell me to stop caring for her. But I just can’t. I hope one day she will realize I have been here all along waiting for her to open up again. After all, long years of friendship couldn’t just be easily forgotten and buried. I hope this will be another beginning of more good things to come for the two of us.
Note:If you are interested to know more about what happened between us, you can click the link below.
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August 10th, 2008 at 5:28 pm
Good to hear that you finally reunited with your bestfriend of many years.. hope the communication will continue sis… hirap nyan mukhang love na love mo sya.
bout Entrebar, I didn’t see the toolbar at first. All I saw was the logo, but when you scan your toolbar thoroughly, you’ll get to see the Entrecard email login yung, you are supposed to get 10 sites maximum if you press the double green thing there.
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August 10th, 2008 at 11:51 pm
I read the related article on the other blog.
I will not pretend by saying “I know how you felt”. Why? Because I have never “lost” a friend so close to my heart. However, I will be very genuine to say “I know how you feel”. Why? Because I know you are someone who values friendship so much. Yes, I so too, and I can always imagine the joy in my heart when i gain one.
I will like both of your to forgot all those dark months.
What is most important is that the candles have been lit again and we have every reason to party to that.
Happy Birthday o the kid.
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August 11th, 2008 at 4:49 am
ohhh that sounds sad. i think your bf is right to stop caring for her if she doesn’t return the favor to you. but of course you are the one to decide. i have a bestfriend in dubai that i haven’t talked for almost 5 years and that’s not because of misunderstanding but because we’re both having a hard time in our lives. until now we are still the best of friends if we see each other. though we don’t communicate much but we know deep in our heart that we still care for each other.
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August 11th, 2008 at 9:48 am
Oh English comments again..hehehe! Here’s my piece….
Leyn, she(Ria) looks so happy and seems no problem, thats good for her!
Thanks for sharing the pics here. I’m anticipating to see her baby, even sa picture lang gud.
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August 11th, 2008 at 10:16 am
How come she was trying to lost a friend like you despite of all? Gosh how lucky are they to have you as a friend. You’re a treasure Lainy. But I’m happy for the reunion and take note it’s because of an angel. So I’m sure she was sent to be an instrument to tie the bond again. Best regards.
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August 11th, 2008 at 11:06 am
it’s hard when someone is so blinded by love and disregards true friendship in favor of the new love!
i do believe friendship tested by time weighs more than a tickle to the heart new and immature relationship.
that friend of yours sure is lucky having someone so caring like you! i hope she realizes thst soon enough before it’s too late for her!
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August 11th, 2008 at 1:47 pm
Good photos you got here….
And good luck on your reunited friendship!
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August 11th, 2008 at 2:03 pm
wow bait u naman talaga kahit ganun nangyari,if mahal u nga tao nawawala lahat ng mga mapapait na nangyari once anjan na xa,gud to know at nag reunited na kau ang bestfren nga ay besfren.goodluck sa inyo.Im sure mas magiging close pa kau ngaun.
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August 12th, 2008 at 2:15 am
nabasa nako ang i mong story about atong sa imong Best frined lyn..sad kaau paminawon ug maka relate gyud ko..kay ako pud best frined till now bungol pa me..mabaw ra pud kaau ug rason….grabi gyud me ato ka suod lupig pay igsoon namo ato..sad to say dli na me friend ron…ayaw na niya makig friends sa akoa….niways I’m happy for u nga finally nagka reunited na mo sa imong BF…
anyway ganahan kaau ko sa imong headband..wa ko kita ana diri da lols!
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August 12th, 2008 at 2:16 am
oi hala forgive me bisaya akong comment.
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August 12th, 2008 at 4:44 am
Ellaine,
ako yung bestfren ko andito lang eh. buti kami madalas magkita at magbonding.
Ang cute ng baby ha. (yung baby lang. hihihi!)
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August 13th, 2008 at 6:13 am
@ ALL: :
Thanks to all of you for taking time to leave your thoughts. Sorry if I can’t reply to all of your comments that soon. I’ve just realized it’s not that easy to administer more than one blog, huhu! At any rate, I will always try to get back at my comment section and reply to every commenter whenever I can.
Thank you for your understanding!
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